Ted Lasso: Believe!!!!!!!

Haven't really read this thread so as not to spoil things
But I did finally watch a few episodes of the first season
I'm not a fan of Jason Sudeikis so I pretty much just ignored this show
Something about his vibe just doesn't gel with me
But I will say, he is totally transformed in this show and I actually love his character
I always love optimistic positive characters like this
It's like if you put Monkey D. Luffy as a soccer coach

idk if I'll end up watching all of it, it's a pretty good show though, I get it

Also forgot to mention that the writing is excellent, clever and hilarious
Definitely one of its greatest aspects
 
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Haven't really read this thread so as not to spoil things
But I did finally watch a few episodes of the first season
I'm not a fan of Jason Sudeikis so I pretty much just ignored this show
Something about his vibe just doesn't gel with me
But I will say, he is totally transformed in this show and I actually love his character
I always love optimistic positive characters like this
It's like if you put Monkey D. Luffy as a soccer coach

idk if I'll end up watching all of it, it's a pretty good show though, I get it

Also forgot to mention that the writing is excellent, clever and hilarious
Definitely one of its greatest aspects

I know exactly what you mean. Lucky for me, I wasn't overly familiar with him before Ted Lasso. I'd seen him in things, but didn't make the connection. Now, whenever I see him when he isn't Ted, I think, "Nope!"

The show keeps getting better and better.



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Annnnnnd we're BACK!!!!

The second episode was much more like the old Ted Lasso fans love and miss. Witty, clever, endearing, and full of hidden hints, jokes, call-backs, and clues. It was a great episode overall and most of the characters gave Seasons1-3 vibes as if we never left.

Roy and Keeley -- The tension between them is perfect. Stay tuned for a long season of teasing the audience.
Roy -- His psychological warfare in the away team lockeroom was so Roy.
Beard -- Stole the show.
Alice -- I don't love her. The humorless woman is a tired joke, and she reads like that inaccurate TV autism stereotype. Fans are already labeling her 'autistic.' (I expect Ted to have a breakthrough with her.) Honestly, Keeley is just as likely to be neurodivergent (ADHD, AuDHD) as Alice is. Jade, too. This is going to keep bugging me.
Boots -- Unhinged. She's entertaining.
Twins -- We'll see where the fighting sisters joke goes.
Can't wait for Dani Rojas' sister to show up!!!!!!!!
 
:tearsofjoy::tearsofjoy::tearsofjoy:

 
Relevant to a character in season three who answers the door dressed as #4.


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I don't know.... I thought the last episode (S4E2) meant we were back in action, but this one left me wondering. In S1-3 I loved almost every episode. I'm not a fan of Edwin Akufo or Jack and Shandy, but those episodes always had other parts that hit it out of the park.

--Rebecca is messing up her relationship with Matthijs. She's showing that she doesn't prioritize him. I'm going to be pissed if she messes this up. This dynamic seems to forget core lessons from 1-3 about how people are more important than wins and how we need to nurture healthy relationships.
-- I'm sooooo disappointed about Dani Rojas' sister not being on the team. Featuring her in the trailer was a weird bait and switch.
-- IMO, so far, we're not seeing the classic Lasso writing magic from most of the teammates. Boots is the only one who captures that magic so far.
-- Roy pursuing Keeley is funny and charming. Fuuuuuuck.
-- Didn't like the whole "Roy's career is up in the air" subplot. Booo.
-- Love Mae and Phoebe rooting for the women. Two ends of the spectrum.
-- Liked the misogynistic approach the shareholders took and how that drives the plot.
-- The convo with Henry about generational wealth and etc was great.
-- They haven't introduced Roy's new assistant coach yet. (I have my suspicions about who it may be.)
 
Anyone criticizing S4 in the fan zones is being fed to the wolves right now, including actual footballers. One of the footballers pointed out that this team is full of fuck ups who would never be allowed to behave this way professionally. (I agree with her, and I find some of the antics annoying, too.)

In the show's defense, I think they're exaggerating the situation for effect. This team seems inspired by movies like The Bad News Bears, Major League, Stripes, Slap Shot, and A League Of Their Own.

Rocky, Karate Kid, Revenge of the Nerds, Cool Runnings, Rudy, Hidden Figures, The Longest Yard, Miracle (on Ice), Cinderella Man, Billy Elliot, Goonies, Slumdog Millionaire... The list of underdog films goes on and on.

The Susan Boyle reference fit, too. She was an underdog nobody expected to shine.

Americans LOVE underdog stories. We see ourselves as the underdogs for some reason, even though nothing could be further from the truth on a global scale. We especially love underdog sports stories. Sports are so dear to people's hearts, and people have secret dreams of going pro even if they know it's unrealistic, so maybe underdog stories let them live that fantasy a little.

My kind of underdog stories are Basquiat and Pollock.
 
We Are Back, BayBayyyyyy!!!!!

THIS is the Ted Lasso we signed up for! S4E4 is moving into a top ten episode slot for me. Not sure where it fits on that top ten list yet because I'm still experiencing the euphoria of seeing the show at its best again. I was skeptical about Season 4 before this, but if the rest of the season has this energy and writing, it will be gold.

Boots is punk as fuck. (Not literally.) She reminds me so much of a close friend when we were in our twenties in looks, temperament, and antics. The bar scene is exactly how things would have played out. 100% realistic for my crew back in the day. There is someone punk rock in the writer's room. (I've said this before.) The episode included the Circle Jerks "Wild In The Streets," too.
(Sidenote: Personally, I would have punched the guy instead of using a bottle, and I would have gotten out of there before getting arrested. How do I know this? Because scenes like this happened in my life.)


Roy and Keeley: Keeley is being dumb. She should either go back to Roy or tell him NO. The situation seems like a setup for a love triangle where Roy dates the doctor, and Keeley suddenly realizes she wants Roy back. If so, Keeley gets what she deserves for keeping Roy as an option for three years. Maybe they'll mix it up, and Keeley will be relieved.....
The actor who plays the doctor and the actor who plays Roy have been love interests in other projects.


Tracey Ullman is great in the role of Zelda Southport.


Beard. Poor Beard. Can't wait for the episode where they explain this.

Seaward? Southport? Matthijs the boat guy? Is there a reason for this? There have been several other nautical comments like "smooth sailing" and "wind in the sails," too.


The homage to Richard Pryor and Gene Wilder in "Stir Crazy" was gold.
 
Reddit is failing the lesson. It's ruining the fandom for me.

The lesson this season is about women's sports and how to rise above internal biases about women.
The fan base seems OK about the women's team, most of whom remain a monolith of jock-girl sameness.
They're taking their misogyny out on Keeley instead.

Keeley is the most feminine character. She's petite, positive, girly, fun, bubbly, wears loads of pink, frills, color, patterns, make-up, and styled hair. These are all traits perceived as unprofessional in corporate workspaces, and not coincidentally, all these traits are also considered both feminine and childish. There is so much wrong with a society that associates feminine traits with children. I'm not going to go into it here, but if your automatic response to seeing a woman like Keeley is to think "little girl," you need to unpack that on your own time.

As a small woman, I know we are often infantilized, objectified, and perceived as unthreatening. Men are more likely to harass us because they think they can get away with it. (This happens to Keeley on the show, but not to Rebecca, who is gorgeous but 6'.) Keeley's response seems like a defense mechanism. She acts good-natured most of the time.

The fanbase is bashing her, full of hate for her, accusing her of being childish, making fun of her styling, hoping she and Roy don't get back together, and etc, and none of these fans of the famous "be curious, not judgmental" show seem to realize that, like every other major character on the show, Keely has an arc. She has flaws. She has lessons to learn and improvements to make. She's the only one the mob has turned on, though.

...And this is a fandom that heavily polices the criticism of other characters, no matter how low those characters stoop. (Excluding two obvious bad guys.)

The other character who gets undeserved hate is Beard. Beard After Hours is one of the lowest-rated episodes in the series... and one of the most unhinged and fun! Beard is an untamed intellectual with a secretive side. He's smart. He's observant. He's wacky. He's wise. He has a past. (He'd be one of my first picks if I could spend an evening with only one character from the show. It would not be a dull night.)

Untouchable, though? Nate. Hmmmm. Many men have stated that Nate is relatable. People give Nate grace. They won't give Keeley the same grace. ...Maybe because half the fanbase can't relate to women, and even many of the women don't understand what life is like for women like Keeley (and don't care to try).

The Keeley hate has ruined the fandom for me. I will continue to love this show, but this shows me how sheepish people can really be and how easily they jump on bandwagons.
 
I will continue to love this show, but this shows me how sheepish people can really be and how easily they jump on bandwagons.
For those things I love, I love them, and that is enough.

If another loves it too, I might acknowledge that, and leave it at that.

Their love is not mine. That we both love is the end of the comparison. All the rest is invariably contrast, and sometimes, the divergence is bewildering. For reason of aesthetics, or psychodynamics, or of projection of ism or ology, where the thing so loved is but a fulcrum for an agenda.

Wisdom of the crowd? No. Only bleating.

If you have ever loved something, and never heard another speak of your reason for loving it so, over time, ever to repeat, you know fandom is but a dull, and blunt affair.

This is not to say one is better or more true. There is no hierarchy here.

This is to say that discernment, critical thinking and contextual analysis, built on a deep foundation of other works, across disciplines and domains, is often a very lonely place.

I offer my apology if this comes across as unreasonably jaded. I typed what I felt and what came to mind without editing, and I pressed post. No brevity, but perhaps authenticity.

Cheers,
Ian
 
@aeon. Thank you. I know a fanbase is not the topic itself. I believe in the quote by Susan Sontag about how 10% of people are good, 10% are evil, and 80% can go either way... and how easily that 80% is persuaded one way or another.

I've also spent a lifetime enjoying spaces with people who share interests.

Before Season 4, I found the Ted Lasso sub to be positive (for the most part). The past few weeks have been filled with mean-spirited posts and comments about Keeley. (Sometimes backhanded.) It sucked the joy out of a once-positive space.

But Reddit rewards copying popular posts and agreeing with the crowd. -- A large part of why I am a reader there, but rarely comment.
 
But Reddit rewards copying popular posts and agreeing with the crowd. -- A large part of why I am a reader there, but rarely comment.
Which is why when I post, I am largely ignored in the general social areas. Of course, I have no problem saying something against the grain, and very occasionally I am downvoted into oblivion. There’s a tiny pride in that.

Occasionally I am upvoted for wordplay, or for being strongly egalitarian in regards to people in need of perspective. Partisan women and men do not know what to do with me, but I am trusted to be fair, and generally kind, if at times firm, and I have been invited to private subreddits which typically exclude my sex or my systems of belief.

I do get upvotes and replies as of late in subreddits concerning all things photography, because I engage often and try to share all the knowledge I have amassed. This is often in regards to how someone should, or should not, spend money.

Lately, as I have gone down deeper rabbit holes, I ignore so very much so I can hyperfocus on that which I am interested in. There’s no time to faff about. In the deepest warrens, the politics evaporate, and it becomes highly technical and artistic.

And yes, that was a lie. The politics never go away. But it is more muted and so rarely surfaces.

Cheers,
Ian
 
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Well, this rules.

 
Ahhh, now we know what's going on with Beard.

Jane sucks. The ending of Beard After Hours makes me so happy for Beard, but everything about this woman is toxic. I don't know who would be dumb enough to watch that performance and think Beard is the enemy in this situation. ...But then, we just had that entire discussion in this thread about mob mentality.
 
Ahhh, now we know what's going on with Beard.

Spoiler: Should He Stay Or Should He Go?

That definitely felt like the missing puzzle piece finally clicking into place. Beard has always been written as the guy who seems unknowable until the show quietly reminds us there’s a whole storm system under that hat.

I’m curious where they take it next, because with Beard it could go heartfelt, absurd, or both in the same scene. That’s kind of the magic of him.
 
One of the themes of Ted Lasso Season 4 is theater. We should be watching for clues. I'm not that into theater, so that will be tough for me. LOL!


The mask scene in the last (NYE) episode was bothering me because I recognized the masks and knew they were significant, but I couldn't place them. They were on the tip of my brain, so to speak. I realized, of course, that the episode referended Eyes Wide Shut, but I knew there was more to it.

I pulled this abbreviated post off Reddit to help explain the visual/prop decisions of the last episode and what they meant:

The masks worn at Zelda's boat party come from an Italian improv theatre style called Commedia dell'arte.

Masks depict certain types of characters and tell the audience background about the character. So no matter what the show is, the mask tells you oh, this is an antagonist, etc.

Zelda's mask is the Harlequin. Known for being the most famous and engaging of the characters, but is dishonest, perennially hungry, foolish, ingenious, and a busybody.

Zelda's "friend" wore the Pantalone mask. This character is rich, greedy, and cunning.

Beard's mask is Piangi, usually someone experiencing a tragedy, grieving, and suffering. It can also be used for an old man.

Mrs. Higgins and the woman with Beard both had Colombina masks. This character is typically a quick-witted, resourceful female servant. Always down to earth and sees situations for what they actually are. It’s common for masquerade balls.

Higgins himself might be Tartaglia because of his glasses. This character is farsighted and often stutters.

We also saw the Phantom of the Opera mask being worn by one of the extras in the scene.

Background of Commedia dell'arte:

This was historically a form of live theatre where the lower class made fun of the upper class. Many of the stock characters, such as Harlequin, Pantalone, etc. were meant to be extravagant depictions of the wealthy and how they act. The masks and stock characters were satirical ways to discuss greed and social hierarchy.

The only unmasked characters were the team and somewhat Higgins' (they were given masks instead of already having them). Everyone else on the boat is presumed to be very rich, and the team makes comments about being out of place during their time there.
 
Cue Etta James "At Last."

We finally got the moment Roy/Keeley shippers were hoping for. Overall, the episode seemed like it was a bridge between the last few episodes and those to come. Roy and Keeley were the big moment, and it felt like the writers were trying to do a second Rainbow. It had the same overall pattern, featuring transportation issues and the big payoff at the end.
More marriage imagery between them as well.

Still... at last!!! They are finally back together!!!!!

Someone is trying to take over the club. The few shares fans won't sell will save Rebecca and Richmond's ass.
Funny, because when she sold the club, I mentioned to my SO that this is how hostile takeovers take seed, and that Rebecca should sell fewer shares, retaining more control.
Rupert? Zelda? Akufu? Jack? Derrek? -- There are many possibilities, but most fans think it's Zelda. I'll be surprised if Zelda isn't in on this scheme (heading it and/or part of a team), but what if she isn't and she helps save the day? Hahahaha.That would be even funnier because she is such obvious villain material.

Higgins' investigation echoed All the President's Men (including the music).
Mae was Deep Throat from the Nixon scandal.

Gemma got hurt. Everyone predicted this. EVERYONE!!!!!

Ted helped Alice calm down by sitting with her silently and making space for her emotions. He did breathing exercises to help calm her.
I sometimes act this way with friends when they are upset, and once someone yelled at me for not saying anything. She later apologized, realizing that giving her room to feel all her emotions while still being there to support her was the right thing to do. I think she was angry during the moment because I couldn't fix the problem. It was a small victory for me to see Ted use my method. ...Sometimes, you just need to cry, and friends just need to let you while they stick by your side.

Person on Reddit: Best scene ever. Came here to say this. (Such a mature caring thing to do, to just sit and "be"!). Inspiring. How much better would we all be with this kind of friend and being this kind of friend for others.
 
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