I fear what many others have posted actually. Makes sense for the group!
-Hurting Others (Destroys Me)
-Losing My Mind - Becoming a Vegetable
-Dying Unfulfilled
Also, @just me you have some damn good breaking down of what people mean!
While I'm far more patient when passive-aggressiveness is directed towards me; I loathe it when I see it done to others. It feels like manipulation to me