Recent content by Coin

Ok....You're getting too ahead of yourself. This isn't a serious problem. Like I said, it isn't "asshole"-like, it's just less nice. I have normal relations with people including my family. It's just a random, social-related thought. I don't actually have a problem. Sheesh.

Makes sense. I wish I could treat people more equally. Ah....I see. Recommendation : Not getting too ahead of yourself. Aw, thanks. I really agree about always being nice to the people who are 'bonded' to you. It's such a hard thing to do. Yes, we're taking them for granted just...

No, I don't think so. I can't relate to this.

I do. I don't know why. It seems like it should be the opposite. That the more you're familiar or closer to someone, you would treat them better, but for some reason I treat strangers much more kindly than my mom or my siblings. The moment when I become "friends" with someone, I become an...

But then you used words like "does not always" and "sometimes", can you give a percentage of importance to differentiate conversational and silent communication? I would say conversational 90% and silent 10%.

I respectfully disagree. I've lived with individuals who I have not frequently conversed with although I am frequently in their presence and by the end of the 3rd year of us living in the same household, I barely felt connected to them. I barely even knew them and they barely even knew me. By...

What if the point was to increase the your connection/rapport with another person? That's interesting. I haven't thought about the meaning of "awkwardness"... It's not that you don't want to leave your head, it's whether you leave your head consciously or you wait for the go signal of a less...

I think you have just greatly upgraded my entire life. Thank you so much. I didn't realize I had that stigma. And I realize It's so true. What an enlightening thing!

You know those moments when you're in an awkward conversation with someone and you could either consciously choose to say something or let the awkward atmosphere to continue? Those moments are moments where you are hyper-conscious of the situation. Now, how about a daily chit-chat with a very...

This is the kind of response i was hoping for. First of all, why the stress on figuring out what has made you feel an intense emotion? Do emotions really work as simple as "cause and effect?" Don't people always know why they're angry? Or do they always have to ask themselves why they're...

Oops, I meant at "someone" not "sometime." I have this dualistic perspective when there's conflict. I always think that there's "good guy" and that there's a "bad guy." I think like this because I recognize that someone has to be right if not righter. If I get angry unjustifiably or because of a...

So basically, the only time you should get angry is when you want to get motivated?

Most of the time when I get mad and I use that anger to react to sometime, it ends horribly. I end up regretting releasing my anger for something that I haven't thought well enough. When I get angry because I felt offended by what someone said or did, i end up taking the "wrong side." I become...

Having to learn things on your own and reaching your own conclusions is definitely an odd thing I find myself in. There's even a point in time where I had to come up with my own mathematical rules and formulas and such to continue my studies. why why why why. I also always find myself creating...